Loneliness happens when the unpleasant emotional and cognitive state based on desiring close relationships but being unable to attain them. This happens when we feel like we want to approach the person that we like, that we love, but we do not know how to start talking with them, how to approach them. And at the end, we stay lonely without get the chance to approach the person that we like to approach. As for example, I have a friend who like someone. But she did not how to approach the person that she like. My other friend taught her how to flirt with that guy. With that, she got the spirit that she can get the chance to approach that guy. But unfortunately, that guy had been in relationship with another girl already. My friend feel depressed as her other friends have someone to share problem with, to hang out with. She feel lonely. And to reduce her loneliness, my friends and I decided to spend more time with her and make her enjoy with us. From that, she feel did not feel lonely anymore. From that, our loneliness can be reduced based on how we workout together to reduce it.

Two days before mid-semester break, Miss Hanis informed us to make an experiment regarding to the new topic: Interpersonal Attraction and Close Relationship. There are many determinants that contribute to the interpersonal attraction and one of it is external determinants.  My group got external determinants that contain proximity, physical attractiveness and physical appeareance. Shazrul and i still in the same group have to make a simple research about this determinants.  People cannot avoid rather than having interaction with others and it is rare to find a people that always alone without having any interaction. 

Everyone will have a relationship but the things that make difference in the level of the intimacy is their proximity. Proximity is the physical closeness between two individuals with respect to where they live, work and so on.  Before make any simple observation regarding to this topic, any experiment Before undergo any research, we could identify another external factor that can be considered when want to measure the proximity because we were given a brief explanation after all. Reflecting to myself, i realized that most of the people that i approach will have their own characteristics that make me comfortable with them. Physical appearances also become a measurement for me to choose the person that I want to get close or attach. From my understanding, i could see that less sociable person tend to be friends with those who are less sociable too. It is clearly that sometime people will choose the person based on the physical appearance.

We also have assigned by Miss a task for investigating some issues on close relationship. It sounds interesting.  I get topic about romantic relationship and falling in love and being in group with Nabila and Adlina. Nabila gets so excited, I am happy too seeing her happy. There is one thing that catches my attention which is about friendship and romance. Some of people cannot recognize whether the feeling that they feel is either friend state or to the extent of in relationship ( p/s:for best friends that different gender only)